Look at the following options, and put a ✔ in the box beside each item that you feel describes you.
□ I’m curious
□ I’m dealing with stress
□ I want to fit in
□ I’m concerned about my weight
IF YOU checked any of the boxes, then you have something in common with your peers who smoke tobacco or have thought about it. For example:
Satisfying curiosity. “I wondered what it was like, so I took a cigarette from a girl at school and then sneaked out and smoked it.”—Tracy.
Coping with stress and fitting in. “Kids at school would say, ‘I need a cigarette,’ and then afterward, ‘Phew, now I can cope!’ During stressful times, I wanted that.”—Nikki.
Losing weight. “Some girls smoke to stay thin—it’s so much easier than dieting!”—Samantha.
But before you light your
first—or your next—cigarette, stop and think. Don’t be like a fish
striking at a baited hook. True, the fish may get a small reward, but
what a price it pays!) Answer the following questions.
What Do You Really Know About Smoking?
Mark each statement true or false.
a. ․․․ Smoking reduces stress.
b. ․․․ I would exhale almost all of the smoke.
c. ․․․ Smoking won’t affect my health until I get older.
d. ․․․ Smoking will make me more attractive to the opposite sex.
e. ․․․ If I smoke, no one is hurt but me.
f. ․․․ It doesn’t matter to God whether I smoke or not.
Answers
a. Smoking reduces stress.—False. Although smoking temporarily relieves the stress of withdrawal symptoms, scientists have found that nicotine actually increases your level of stress hormones.
b. I would exhale almost all of the smoke.—False. Some studies indicate that over 80 percent of the cigarette smoke particles you inhale stay inside your body.
c. Smoking won’t affect my health until I get older.—False.
While the risks increase with each cigarette you smoke, a few effects
are immediate. Some people become addicted from just one cigarette. Your
lung capacity will be reduced, and you’ll likely develop a persistent
cough. Your skin will wrinkle more and prematurely. Smoking increases
your risk of sexual dysfunction, panic attacks, and depression.
d. Smoking will make me more attractive to the opposite sex.—False. Researcher Lloyd Johnston found that teens who smoke are “less attractive to the great majority of the opposite sex.”
e. If I smoke, no one is hurt but me.—False. Secondhand smoke kills thousands each year; it will harm your family, your friends, and even your pets.
f. It doesn’t matter to God whether I smoke or not.—False. Those who want to please God must cleanse themselves of “every defilement of flesh.”
There is no doubt that smoking defiles the body. If you choose to be
unclean, harming yourself and others by using tobacco, you cannot be a
friend of God.
How to Resist
So, what will you do if someone
offers you a cigarette? A simple but firm response, such as “No thanks, I
don’t smoke,” will often work. If the person persists or even taunts
you, remember that it is your choice. You might say:
● “I checked out the risks and decided that it’s not for me.”
● “I have some important future plans that involve breathing.”
Like the youths quoted earlier
in this article, though, you may find that the greatest pressure comes
from inside yourself. If that’s the case, answer this ‘inner voice’ by
reasoning on questions such as these:
● Will I really gain benefits by
smoking? For instance, if I decide to smoke just to be accepted by
others, will I somehow fit in despite having little else in common with
them? Do I even want to fit in with people who would be happy to see me damage my own health?
● How much will smoking cost me in money, health problems, and loss of others’ respect?
● Would I be willing to sell out my friendship with God for the price of a cigarette?
What, though, if you’re already hooked. What can you do to break free?
How to Quit
1. Convince yourself. Write down your reasons for quitting, and review this list regularly. A desire to be clean before God can be a powerful motive.
2. Get help. If you’ve
been smoking in secret, now is the time to come clean. Tell those you
have been hiding your smoking from that you are quitting, and ask for
their support. If you want to serve God, pray for his help.
3. Set a quit date. Give
yourself two weeks or less, and mark on your calendar the day you are
determined to quit. Tell your family and friends that you are quitting
on that date.
4. Search and destroy.
Before you reach your quit date, scour your room, car, and clothing for
any cigarettes. Destroy them. Get rid of lighters, matches, and
ashtrays.
5. Deal with withdrawal symptoms. Drink plenty of fruit juice or water, and allow more time for sleep. Keep in mind that the discomfort is temporary, while the benefits are permanent!
6. Avoid triggers. Stay
away from places and situations where you would be tempted to smoke. You
may also need to cut off social contact with associates who are
smokers.
7. Avoid rationalizations. Don’t fool yourself by saying, “I’ll only take one puff.” Such rationalizations often lead to a full relapse.
Don’t Be Duped
Each year, tobacco companies spend billions of dollars on advertising. How can they not know that many youths will be lured by their bait and even become tomorrow’s addicted adults?
Don’t allow tobacco executives
to get their hands into your pockets. Why take their bait? Neither that
group nor your peers who smoke have your best interests at heart. Rather
than listen to them, learn
“to benefit yourself.”
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